Epictetus presents a two-step process for living with purpose: first, gain clarity about who you want to become, then align your actions with that vision. Without the first step, we drift aimlessly, reacting to circumstances rather than creating our character deliberately. Without the second step, we remain dreamers rather than becoming achievers. The integration of clear identity and consistent action creates a powerful life direction. This isn't about perfection but about conscious choice - deciding what kind of person we want to be and then making daily decisions that move us toward that ideal.