Epictetus calls for authentic self-expression that flows from genuine self-knowledge rather than external expectations or social pressure. Before concerning ourselves with how we appear to others, we need to understand who we actually are - our values, capabilities, goals, and character. Only from this foundation can we make choices about how to present ourselves that feel genuine and aligned. This applies not just to clothing and appearance but to career choices, relationships, and life direction. When our external choices reflect our internal reality, we live with integrity and confidence rather than constantly trying to maintain a false image.